SELF 4/1 Combination

SELF 4 / 1 is your combination. You care deeply for others and want to see them happy and fulfilled. You are a giver and much prefer to give than receive. You have a tremendous sensitivity to and empathy with, other people. Service is your primary purpose. At this point you have not been jaded physically or spiritually worn down. You are still fired up about life and your place in it, but this is a precarious level. You may have started out as level 4/3 but have been worn down over the sands of time by people not living up to your expectations or acting in the way you wanted. Placing your self-worth in your ability to help others can cause you to suffer not least of all because others are out of your control. Where others fail under your tutelage the tendency is to blame yourself and get down on yourself. You may also take on the burden of colleagues work loads as well as accept their mistakes as your own. This self imposed victim mode is both exhausting and limiting, greater self-awareness is the key to release these shackles. All of these negative character traits can lead to low self esteem, anxiety and even depression. Thankfully your dominant Level 4 energy helps you to see and try to focus on the silver linings of life rather than the dark clouds. Therefore in spite of the worst traits of Level 1, you remain optimistic and believe that if all things are not working out how you would like them to, at least you have the ability to change them. Keeping your eye on the prize, whatever it might be, and guarding against negative self thought, gives you the best chance to pursue a measure of happiness and peace of mind.